Category: Wedding Advice

Welcome to my collection of wedding advice; an accumulation of the knowledge I have gained attending weddings for a living.

You know I love being a wedding photographer, right?

Did you also know that I love to write about my experiences?

I am adding new resources to this collection on a regular basis so do keep checking back.

If you have any suggestions or questions please feel free to get in touch, I’m almost always available!

  • Do You Need A Second Wedding Photographer?

    Do You Need A Second Wedding Photographer?

    Your wedding day only happens once, and with so much going on having a second wedding photographer to provide additional coverage seems like a no-brainer.

    But, having multiple photographers at your wedding can have some downsides.

    So let’s explore the ups and downs of second photographers.

    As always, the images featured in this article were taken by JLM Wedding Photography unless otherwise stated.

    What is a ‘Second’ Wedding Photographer And What Do They Do?

    In the wedding photography world, more often than not you’ll have a ‘primary’ wedding photographer.

    The primary photographer is the person who takes responsibility for capturing your day.

    They represent their brand, they have a style and a vision and that is what you will have looked at and admired when you considered booking them as your wedding photographer.

    The second photographer will have been hired by the primary photographer, to capture additional angles and cover secondary locations.

    Typically when you choose your wedding photographer you will come across one of three scenarios.

    1. They work alone, a second photographer is not an option.
    2. A second photographer is an optional extra.
    3. They always work with a second photographer who is included in the price.

    There is an alternative to the ‘primary’ model wherein both photographers are equally primary. 

    They may be equal partners in the business and come as a duo. 

    In that case as well as in scenario no. 3 above, you’ll need to make the decision about whether you want a second photographer before you book them.

    Is An Assistant The Same As A Second Photographer?

    Some photographers may also bring along an assistant to help them on the wedding day.  

    Whether or not they shoot photos depends on the arrangement with the main photographer.  

    Their main role will be to assist the primary photographer with things like light stands, tripods, and possibly helping to arrange people into group photos.  

    I would regard assistants as something entirely different for the purposes of this article, although it may still be worth you asking your photographer whether they use an assistant because you may end up having to feed them.

    Advantages Of Booking A Second Photographer

    There is a pretty obvious benefit to a second photographer.

    Additional Coverage

    Instead of just one person at the front taking photos you have another at the back capturing a different perspective of the same thing.

    For example, the primary photographer can be up front during the ceremony capturing the details, whilst the second photographer can be at the back capturing guest reactions.

    They can also be capturing candid moments of your guests whilst you are out with your primary photographer taking portraits, so you’ll know what you missed during that time.

    For me though, the main advantage to having a second photographer is…. 

    Capturing Both Parties Getting Ready At The Same Time

    Whilst the primary photographer is with one party getting ready, the secondary photographer can be with the other party.

    The only time one person can reasonably get photos of the two parties getting ready in the morning is if they are both getting ready in the same location.  

    Even then, there will be moments that are missing down to simply logistics.

    I would regard this as especially important for same sex marriages where there are two bridal parties, who both deserve equal coverage.

    Providing Backup For The Main Photographer

    Any wedding photographer worth their salt would have backup gear, but there are some things a spare camera and extra batteries won’t help with.

    What if, for example whilst travelling between venues, the primary photographer is involved in a road traffic accident?

    In that instance, you may have temporarily lost your primary photographer, at least you have the secondary photographer who should already be waiting at the location and can stand in as the primary until they arrive.

    Disadvantages Of A Second Wedding Photographer

    Yep, there are downsides too.  The most obvious being…

    Additional Cost

    You are now paying for two people rather than just one.

    If the second photographer is an optional extra then that’s another thing you have to find money for.

    If the second photographer is included in the price, does that mean the primary photographer is valued at less than an equivalent single photographer?

    Either way, more people means more money.

    You may also need to consider paying for a second meal if that is included in the photographer’s contract.

    Having Multiple Photographers Can Be Intimidating

    I can’t speak for everyone, but I know the couples who tend to book me as their wedding photographer are usually the kind of people who don’t want to turn their wedding into a production.

    They want to get on with having a beautiful wedding day without they and their guests feeling uncomfortable or inundated with photographers.

    From a photographer, they want discretion.  

    They want someone who will blend in a capture the day without disrupting it.

    Adding a second photographer can risk causing the very disruption they are trying to avoid.

    Don’t get me wrong, we’re only talking about two people.   

    The right team of photographers they should be able to work tactfully enough for this not to be a big deal.

    When you’ve got a small or medium sized wedding party, two photographers can potentially feel a lot more intimidating that just one.

    They Will Get Into Each Other’s Photographs

    An experienced photography team should be able to mitigate this for the most part, there are still times where getting into each other’s photos in unavoidable.

    This may not bother you, after-all the photographers were as much a part of your day as anything else.

    For the most part this will be nothing more than amusing, though there can be times when both photographers have the same idea and can get in each other’s way.

    In the below image you’ll see me unavoidably becoming a feature in my second photographer’s image.  

    Image credit: Alex Wilden

    I don’t feel like this is a particularly egregious example of what I’m talking about.  I actually don’t have any of those.

    For me the main point is to consider that having multiple photographers covering the same thing is not always guaranteed to be better than just one photographer.

    Conclusion: Do You WANT A Second Wedding Photographer?

    I’m going to be unusually decisive here and say no, you don’t NEED a second wedding photographer.

    The only time I would strongly recommend a second photographer is when you really want comprehensive photo coverage of both parties getting ready prior to the ceremony.

    Other than that it comes down to whether you WANT a second photographer.

    In writing this article I wanted to make sure to convey the idea that two is not automatically better than one.  

    As we have seen above there are pros and cons to having an additional photographer.   It’s up to you to decide which option is right for you.

    And as always, if you have any question or comments, please feel free to ask.

  • Why You Shouldn’t Give Your Photographer a Wedding Photo List

    Why You Shouldn’t Give Your Photographer a Wedding Photo List

    You’re pretty new to hiring professional photographers, so perhaps you feel you need to provide them with a wedding photo list in advance of your wedding.

    Here are 5 important reasons why you probably shouldn’t.

    Do You Trust Your Photographer?

    Yeah I know, start with an easy one.

    Assuming you’ve already booked your wedding photographer, you trust them right?

    You went through a rigorous vetting process to make sure you picked the photographer who takes photos you love, and who you get along with.

    That being the case, you should have no need to give any significant direction to your photographer. 

    Important point #1: Trust that your photographer knows what they are doing.

    The Reality of Wedding Photo Lists

    It’s ok to not know what you’re doing when you’re booking a wedding photographer.

    Perhaps your parents have asked whether you’ve prepared your shot list for your photographer.

    Thing is, if your parents got married decades ago they probably had to give their photographer a wedding photo list. 

    That’s because in the days before digital cameras, photographers would work to a tight list of prearranged portraits.

    Documentary style wedding photography wasn’t really a thing back then.

    BTW please don’t tell your parents that I insinuated that they are old, I’m sure YOUR parents are young enough to have gotten married in the digital age :-).

    Important point #2 is that wedding photography isn’t about prearranged, staged photos anymore.

    Your Wedding Is Different To Everyone Else’s

    Think about how many variables there are on a wedding day.

    Important point #3: the photos you love on Pinterest are probably not achievable on your wedding day.

    Those photos could have been taken anywhere, at any time.

    On your wedding day the lighting will be different, the weather, the location, the venue itself.  You won’t have the same dress or outfit, hair, makeup.  The list of variables goes on.

    Not to mention a lot of the best images on Pinterest are often taken on styled shoots, where the variables are controlled and the photographer can arrange everything to get the best possible photo.  

    Wedding days are not so controllable.

    Honestly, even photos I took myself can be tricky to recreate at a different wedding at the same venue.

    To be honest, I’m probably not the right photographer for you.

    Find Out Why

    Shot Lists Put Unnecessary Pressure On You and Your Photographer

    Wedding days go from start to finish in the blink of an eye.

    You’ll go from one setting to the next with people coming at you from all angles for all sorts of reasons.

    Your photographer will be following the action throughout the day, capturing everything so that you can try to figure out what happened afterwards.

    From time to time they may take you out of the action to get some portraits, and of course the group photos, but for the most part you’ll want to get on with enjoying the day as best you can.

    Now imagine that you have given your photographer a comprehensive list of photos they have to make sure they get at some point during the wedding day.

    They (and you) will then be preoccupied trying to set these shots up, and all the while missing the genuine moments that make your wedding unique.

    Important point #4: the more time you spend trying to stage unnatural photos, the less you’ll have to enjoy your wedding day.

    The Good Kind Of Wedding Photo Shot List

    You probably think I’m not a fan of shot lists.

    In reality, I ask every couple to make one before their wedding day.

    Importantly though, the shot list I want is for the group photos, and it is just a list of people who must be included in those photos.

    More on that here: 4 Tips For Getting Your Wedding Group Photos Done Quickly Without Missing Anyone 

    Beyond the group photo lists, I’m always open to suggestions.

    That’s important point #5, talk to your photographer beforehand about what kind of photos you’d like to have.   

    Make suggestions and explain what is important to you and why.  

    Let that guide your photographer, rather than simply dictating shot by shot what they should take.

    Don’t send them pictures from someone else’s wedding and tell them you’d like that photo.

    Discuss and agree on what is possible, and prepare yourself for the idea that what you are hoping for may not be possible on your wedding day

    Conclusion

    If you trust your photographer and know that they produce photos that you love then let them do what they do best.

    Ultimately, for all the planning and research you can do, you won’t know what your wedding will look like until it happens.

    You might not get the photos you thought you wanted, embrace that idea and throw away your expectations.

    So long as you have the right photographer, you’ll have so much better than you could have imagined.

    Your wedding photos won’t be like anyone else’s, they’ll be your wedding photos, taken at your wedding, and you will love them.

  • 6 Natural Wedding Photo Ideas That Work For Every Wedding

    6 Natural Wedding Photo Ideas That Work For Every Wedding

    If you’re looking for wedding photo ideas on glamourous websites, or even Pinterest and Instagram, then you have to keep in mind that those photos were taken by different people at different times, in different conditions and possible in a different location.

    Shit, the word ‘different’ just lost all meaning for me.  Dammit I liked that word.

    Wedding photography these days revolves around capturing natural moments. 

    Once you start giving your photographer lists of photos you want taken then they stop capturing natural moments, because they have to try to contrive unnatural moments that look natural, because it happened naturally at someone else’s wedding once.

    BTW the only list of photos I’d want you to give me is of the group photos, that’s actually really helpful.  Check out my 4 Tips For Getting Your Wedding Group Photos Done Quickly Without Missing Anyone.

    Natural Moments Like These 🙂

    Guide To Natural Photos You Can Get At Any Wedding

    If you’re going to give your photographer any lists other than the group photo list, here is one I recommend.

    What’s that, you haven’t got a photographer yet?  Well, there’s a handy link to my packages down at the bottom of this very page ;-).

    All the photos in this article were taken by JLM Wedding Photography.

    Walking Down The Aisle and The Reaction

    Not everyone bursts into tears, that moment when you both clap eyes on each other as one of you walks down the aisle is a moment to behold.

    Straight off the bat this is one of my favourite shots, and one that I make sure I’m in position for every time.

    Walking Through Confetti

    It actually takes quite a lot of ushering on my part to get people into the right position.

    Once I give everyone the go-ahead, it’s all natural.

    Sometimes guests throw the confetti into the couples faces, sometimes they swallow a little and choke, sometimes they look down, look up, get separated in the confusion….

    Whilst there is nothing natural about the situation, the moment is genuine, loads of fun and makes for amazing natural photos.

    Just the Two Of Us

    These are the headline shots.  Your new profile pic.   The ones you’ll get printed onto canvas.

    The couples portrait is another must have for me when I’m photographing a wedding day.

    Be warned, this is where Pinterest and Insta-fueled dreams can be dashed.

    As a seasoned wedding photographer, I know the best time of day to get portraits.  I also know how to find for the best locations at any venue.

    What I cannot do is stop the rain, remove the clouds or create rolling hills in a town centre.

    This is where you need to trust your photographer.

    You will get amazing photos of the two of you, just be open-minded about the look and feel.

    All the Other Crazy Things That Happen At Your Wedding

    It’s Your Wedding!

    It is full of people you care about, meaning some of the best photos are people just doing stuff at your wedding.

    You might not get the same feelings when you look at other people’s natural moments, but when the antics are all you and your friends on your special day, every moment will be a treasure.

    The First Dance

    The last of the formalities.

    Clench up for one last routine and then you can relax and finally say hello to Uncle Melv who flew all the way from Australia just to come to your wedding.

    Party Time

    Girls, kick off the high-heels and slide on the flats.

    Guys, undo your top button and wrap your tie around your head.

    The formalities are done.  The wedding was a success, you’re married!

    IT’S PARTY TIME!

  • 6 Easy Ways To Reduce Your Wedding Waste Without Your Guests Noticing

    6 Easy Ways To Reduce Your Wedding Waste Without Your Guests Noticing

    You will (hopefully) only get married once.

    Why not push the boat out? Just for one day, be decadent, lavish, carefree.

    Thing is, with over 200,000 weddings happening in England and Wales alone every year, that decadence can take a pretty heavy toll on the environment.

    Don’t worry though, we’re not going to ask your guests to bring their own dinner.

    In this series of articles around planning an Environmentally Friendly Wedding, we will look at simple and cost effective ways to reduce the impact of your wedding. Make sure you also have a look at Part 1 – Reducing Your Wedding Mileage.

    How To Reduce Your Wedding Waste

    Reducing waste is a huge topic right now.

    As a society we are starting to wake up to the damage that single-use plastics are causing.

    There are simple changes that many are starting to make in our daily lives such as reusable takeaway coffee cups and packing lunches in Tupperware rather than cling-film.

    But what about your wedding day?

    As mentioned in the intro, from your perspective your wedding is a one-off event.  You’re not doing this five days a week throughout the year.  That means that the environmental impact of your wedding is relatively minimal. 

    The challenge, of course, is that there are hundred of thousands of weddings happening every year.  If everyone has that same wasteful attitude then this can add up to a pretty serious problem.

    So, what can you do about it?

    Lose the Single-Use Clothing – Hire or Re-Use

    It’s nice for the wedding party to have brand new suits and dresses to make the day special.  

    What happens to those outfits after the big day?  

    Here are a few ideas to make sure you don’t end up with wedding clothes that will only ever be worn once.

    Look for re-usable suits and Dresses

    For the guys, you can get plenty of suits that work well on your wedding day and would look equally smart in the office.  If you make a good choice with your wedding suit it may also double as your interview or client meeting suit.

    It isn’t quite as simple for girls of course, since your typical Bridesmaid’s dress probably wouldn’t be appropriate attire for a job interview.  

    Still you may be able to find one which can be brought back out on a special occasions.

    Hire, or Find Second Hand Outfits

    Sometimes you just want people wearing outfits that would only work at a wedding.

    That’s fine, there are still options.

    Men have been hiring wedding suits for decades, so there are plenty of options out there to find the right one.

    How about second hand dresses?  

    Obviously it will be much harder to find exactly what you want, so make the mismatching dresses part of your theme.  

    Give your bridesmaids some ideas to guide them, like ‘little black dress’, or ‘pastel colours’, and then embrace the differences.

    Do The Environment A Favour

    Wedding Favours are little gifts that you give each of your guests as they sit down for the wedding breakfast.  They are typically included as part of the place setting.

    Being that Favours have been traditional at weddings for centuries and are considered a gesture of good luck, it would be a shame to eliminate them from your wedding entirely.

    So what can you give your guest that doesn’t involve a small disposable box and a few trinkets that will most likely end up in the bin before the end of the day?

    Pile of Favours

    Going back a few centuries you might have gifted your guests a cube of sugar as a sign of wealth.

    That sugar cube would probably end up in their after-dinner tea and would thus not go to waste.

    In the 21st Century sugar is much easier to come by, so that tradition has fallen out of, ahem, favour, recently.

    Your typical favour these days comes in a small, delicately designed cardboard box, wrapped with a ribbon perhaps accompanied by plastic diamonds or other glittery items.  All of that goes straight in the bin almost immediately.

    So, either you get rid of all the packaging entirely, or you find recycled, bio-degradable gift packaging for your favours.

    Personally, I love the idea of gifts that don’t need fancy packaging.  

    Something like a custom shot-glass with your names and wedding dates prints on them.  

    That’s the kind of keep-sake people will love, they can take them home and either display them or use them, and it probably wouldn’t cost you a huge amount to get 50 or so made.

    If you don’t like the idea of shot-glasses, how about candles?  

    Or even a small bunch of flowers?  

    Something that looks nice bound with a little twine and doesn’t need fancy boxes.

    Or just, apples.

    Vet Your Suppliers for Wasteful Behaviour

    When you pick your suppliers you’re probably not thinking about their eco-friendliness.  

    You’re probably more concerned with reliability, cost and quality.

    There are a few simple questions you can ask, and these will help address your other concerns too.

    Ask your caterer where they source their ingredients from, and what they do with left-overs.  Can anything that was left from the main meal be safely re-used at the evening buffet?

    Does your florist use locally grown flowers, and can they do anything with the flowers afterwards such as drying them out for display purposes?

    Photo booths, does every picture need to be printed?  Could they be stored digitally and given to your photographer to be included on the online gallery?  They could still print on demand, but not 2 copies for every shot.

    Venue decorators, is everything re-usable? 

    Photographers, can the photos be delivered digitally to avoid unnecessary prints and memory sticks and postage.

    I think you get the point.

    Other quick and simple ideas

    Get a Bag of Dried Petals for Confetti

    Tell your guests to not bring their own, because then you’ll end up with loads of little boxes to throw away, and you won’t know what it’s made of.  

    Look for a florist who can provide a bag of dried petals that you can pass around when it comes time to throw it.

    Reclaimed And Reusable Decorations

    If you or someone you know is crafty, see if you can make your table plan and other decorations out of reclaimed items.

    You could make signs out of old bits of driftwood or palettes. 

    For table plan ideas, maybe write it on a mirror, or mounted in a photo frame that you can later re-purpose by hanging it in your living room filled with your wedding photos.

    Yes, your photographer may grumble at how difficult it can be to get a good photo of a mirror table plan, but that’s all part of the fun 🙂

    Conclusion

    This article isn’t intended to be a lecture on responsibility.  The problem of waste isn’t going to just go away, we all need to have it in the back of our minds, even when planning something big like a wedding.

    Fortunately, as we have discovered in this article, there are loads of little changes that you can make without spending extra money or going too far out of your way.  In fact, some of these ideas may even save you a penny or two, and that’s never a bad thing.

    If you enjoyed this and would like to find more tips, have a look at Part 1: Reducing Your Wedding Mileage.

  • Planning Your Eco-Friendly Wedding: Part 1 – Reducing Wedding Mileage

    Planning Your Eco-Friendly Wedding: Part 1 – Reducing Wedding Mileage

    You will (hopefully) only get married once.  

    Why not push the boat out?   Just for one day, be decadent, lavish, carefree.

    Thing is, with over 200,000 weddings happening in England and Wales alone every year, that decadence can take a pretty heavy toll on the environment.

    Don’t worry though, we’re not going to ask your guests to do their own dishes.

    In this series of articles around planning an Environmentally Friendly Wedding, we will look at simple and cost effective ways to reduce the impact of your wedding.

    To make sure you don’t miss the next article make sure you pop your name and email address into the box below.

    Cutting Down Your Wedding Mileage

    A lot of miles will be driven to make your wedding day happen.

    Driving to planning meetings, venue visits and deliveries, not to mention suppliers and guests attending on the day.

    You can easily cut down on the environmental impact (and cost) of all this travelling by making a few little changes, such as…

    Try to Find Local Suppliers

    Find suppliers who are based locally to your wedding venue so that they don’t have to travel far to attend meetings and the day itself.

    Bonus points if the actual wedding venue is local to you and most of your guests too.

    You can use Facebook groups to find local venues and suppliers, plus Google tends to do a good job of finding businesses who are based near you if you search for them.

    Meet with suppliers over the phone, Or Combine Meetings

    You can use video calls over Skype, Facetime or Facebook Messenger so that you don’t lose the personal touch.  

    If you do still want to meet your suppliers face to face, see if you can combine the visits.

    For example, arrange to meet your photographer at your venue on the same day you are due to meet with the venue’s coordinator.  That way you are not making an extra trip to meet your photographer, and they can do their location scouting whilst you meet with your coordinator which will save them another trip out.

    For bonus points, you could incorporate your make-up trial and engagement shoot into this planning meeting, which has the added advantage of giving you engagement photos taken at your actual wedding venue in full bridal make-up!

    Cut down the amount of travel your guests have to do on the day

    If you’re getting married in the same venue as your reception then this is less of an issue.  Your guests arrive in the morning and leave at the end.  Perhaps you could improve things further by encouraging car pooling with a note on your invitations.

    If you’re getting married at a church or registry office then your guests will need to travel to both locations, meaning potentially 10+ cars making the same journey at the same time.

    Why not organise a bus for them all?

    Plan for your guests to arrive at your reception venue at a certain time and arrange a bus to take them all to the ceremony together.  Then the same bus can take them all back afterwards.  That way your guests can relax and not worry about where they need to go next, and you’ve taken a bunch of cars off the road.

    For bonus points, you can take the same bus back to the reception with your guests, saving you from hiring a wedding car.  You can still make it special by booking a vintage wedding party bus.

    Things Your Suppliers Can Do To Help

    I’m a pretty low-waste photographer in general.  Mostly because I’m a techie and believe in finding the most modern and efficient way of doing things.

    When I deliver photos I do so via an online gallery.   The images can be downloaded by the couple, plus any guests who are given access.  

    This means no shipping of memory sticks or tacky wooden boxes from China, and no additional mileage incurred passing memory sticks and prints around.

    I also use a UK-based printing house for all my print and album orders, meaning there is no needless long distance shipping going on.

    Outside of the photography world, other suppliers can help reduce pollution too.

    Eco-Friendly Vehicles

    Being eco-friendly shouldn’t get in the way of living out your dream wedding.  If you’ve always dreamt of arriving in a vintage car, you still can.

    See the car in the photo above?  That’s a modern car.  In fact it is a modified Hackney Carriage, aka a London Taxi.  The body has been replaced so that it looks vintage, but it has all the eco-friendliness of a modern car.  Ok, I’ll admit, this is still not the most environmentally friendly way to get to your wedding, but any small change can make a big difference.

    Source Local Raw Materials

    Before you hire a supplier, find out where they source their raw materials.

    This could apply to caterers, venue decorators, even make-up artists.

    Are they environmentally responsible when it comes to sourcing materials.  Buying local can cost a little more, but often means a higher quality product, so it’s worth asking the question.

    Conclusion

    When we’re planning a wedding we often don’t give too much thought about how many miles we, our guests and suppliers are driving in order to make it happen.

    Whilst some driving is inevitable, there are a few quick, easy and cheap ways to make a significant difference to how many cars are on the road and how much fuel is guzzled just to make our one day happen.

    Part 2 Coming Soon: Tips on Reducing Wedding Waste…

  • Your Wedding Needs An Identity :: The Complete Guide to Wedding Stationery

    Your Wedding Needs An Identity :: The Complete Guide to Wedding Stationery

    Your wedding needs an identity

    Think about some of the biggest brands out there.  They use consistent imagery, colours and styles so that all their materials fit together harmoniously.

    In marketing speak this is known as a brand identity.

    You need a wedding identity.

    I know you’re not trying to sell your wedding, and hopefully you won’t need to do too much advertising to get people to turn up.  So how will this identity help?

    It’s all about cohesion.  Everything should look like it belongs together. 

    The girls’ dresses shouldn’t clash with the boys’ ties.  The napkins should look good tucked into the groom’s suit.  Your ‘save the date’ should look like it came from the same wedding as the formal invitation.  That kind of thing.

    Not to mention how much it will help you narrow down some of the huge array of choices you have out there.

    This is really something you should be thinking about early on, before you start picking flowers and ornaments.

    How to start planning the look of your wedding

    If you’re like me, you will probably think you can do it all yourself.  You’ll fire up Microsoft Publisher, think of your favourite colour and then get cracking on your designs.

    Let me give you the benefit of all the lessons I learned the hard way.

    When I started my wedding photography business I knew I needed a brand identity.  I needed all my business cards, flyers, posters, watermarks and everything else to follow that identity to build up a brand of my own.

    So, I fired up Publisher, or maybe Photoshop, and started hunting for a nice font.  Then I picked a colour I quite liked and used an online colour wheel to pick out colours to match it.

    The results were… questionable.

    Eventually I realised that my designs just didn’t reflect the image I wanted my business to have.  I wanted to come across as professional and my amateur logos just weren’t cutting it.

    And here is where this is relevant to you planning your wedding, I did what I should have done at the very beginning and started looking for a graphic designer.

    Using a Professional Graphic Designer for your Wedding Stationery

    I think now is a good time for me to take some of my own advice and hand over to a professional.

    As you may already have noticed, I’m a wedding photographer, not a graphic designer.  And whilst I know many believe that we photographers are also expects at image manipulation, I can assure you this is not always the case.

    To continue this complete guide to wedding stationery, we need an expert on wedding stationery.

    Q&A with a Wedding Stationery Expert

    Meet Chris Green of Chris Green Design.

    Chris is an extremely talented freelance Graphic Designer who also happens to be the mastermind behind all the branding for JLM Wedding Photography.

    As well as helping small businesses like me build up brand identities he also specialises in Wedding Identities.  Also known as Wedding Stationery.

    Chris has been kind enough to give up some of his precious time to answer a few questions about wedding stationery and wedding identities.

    JLM: Chris thanks for taking the time to help people plan their wedding stationery.  Can you give us an introduction to Wedding Stationery and what you would typically provide?

    CG: Well, it all depends on what the client wants. I can offer a full stationery package which includes save the date cards, invitations, RSVP’s, order of service cards, table plans, name cards, menu’s and for after the big day, thank you cards. However, the beauty of going bespoke allows you to pick and choose from this list too. If a client just wanted invites and save the date cards, that’s no problem.

    JLM: How soon into planning a wedding should couples start considering wedding stationery?

    CG: As early as possible, the more time we have to work with the better. This allows plenty of time for amendments, printing and delivery.

    JLM: What are the current trends for wedding stationery?

    CG: Trends in design are always changing, but with wedding stationery it totally depends on the client’s personality and wedding theme. For example, if they decided to have a “Harry Potter” themed wedding day, I would research the style of Harry Potter and create something that looked like it would fit into the wizarding world of Harry Potter, such as the typography, layout, colour and supporting graphics.

    JLM: What should couples think about before meeting up to discuss their Wedding Stationery?

    CG: Come with as many ideas as you can, whether it be the theme, the print finish or the amount you need. However, if you haven’t got a theme and wanted to leave it my hands, that’s also fine.

    JLM: What do you do to set Chris Green Design apart from other Wedding Stationers?

    CG: The personal approach. With each of my clients I like it to be a friendly, laid-back relationship. Meeting up over a cup of tea, discussing ideas and creating something together, that works best in my experience. Being able to speak to someone in person and explain what style you’re going for and ask questions along the way ensures you will get the prefect stationery, exactly how you imagined it. Planning a wedding is one of the most stressful things you will probably ever do, I like to take the pressure off when It comes to the stationery so they can focus on the venue, the food and the dress among other things, the list is endless right?

    JLM: What are the benefits of going bespoke?

    CG: With absolutely no limitations when choosing to get bespoke wedding stationery, clients can literally have ANYTHING they want, the typography, the print finish and layout to name a few, they aren’t tied down to templates which you find on online.

    JLM: Thank you for your time and insights today Chris.  Can you drop your links below so that people can get in touch if they have more questions?

    CG: Sure! If you are thinking of going down the route of bespoke wedding stationery, just head over to my website www.chrisgreen.design  or email me at hello@chrisgreen.design. You can also contact me on social media, all my social profiles are displayed in the footer of my website.

    Conclusion

    Your wedding stationery will define the look and feel of your wedding.  Even if you are planning a laid back wedding, as most of my couples are, you still want your flowers to match your napkins.

    Believe me when I say that choosing a colour is not as easy as you think.  A professional graphic designer can bring together elements of your personality, your ideas along with the time of year and type of venue to find the perfect ‘look’ for your wedding. 

    If you get the look and feel of your wedding right, your guests probably won’t even notice.  

    Get it wrong though, and you could be the talk of the town.

    Blimey that was a pretty dark tone to end on eh?  How about some photos of people smiling at weddings to cheer things up a little…. ????

    100+ Photos Of People Having A Great Time At Weddings

    See ya next time,

    James

  • Ask A Bride: Why I Would 100% Recommend An Engagement Shoot

    Ask A Bride: Why I Would 100% Recommend An Engagement Shoot

    Aimee, aka Marvellous Mrs T, married Craig in September 2018 and I was fortunate enough to have been their photographer.

    I have always seen the value of an engagement shoot for anyone unsure about having their photos taken at their wedding.

    For ages I have been thinking about writing an article about the value of having an engagement shoot, then I discovered that Aimee had already written one on her blog.  For couples considering an engagement shoot, hearing this advice from a couple who have been through the process recently is infinity more valuable (and believable) than coming from me.

    Aimee has very kindly given me permission to reproduce this from her own blog.  All the photos were taken by me at either their engagement shoot or wedding.

    Why I Would 100% Recommend An Engagement Shoot

    Before we start, if you’re anything like me, an engagement photo shoot sounds like another unnecessary expense for an already pricey occasion. How wrong I was.

    When me and my now husband got engaged, we decided I would plan everything and he would watch on from a safe distance. A DIY wedding sure saves money, but it’s still up there with one of the largest spends of my life… but that’s for another post. My point is, we were trying to save, and to pay for someone to take pictures of us a few weeks before we had paid for them to take pictures of us was a laughable notion.

    We met our photographer, James, at a local hotel for a coffee and a chat, as you do. Although first meets are usually a little awkward, I quickly realized; for someone who is often behind the camera, or face only in selfie mode, I was nervous about the idea of having my photo taken. I knew I would look FABULOUS! Who doesn’t on their wedding day? But I wanted natural, fun photos, not posed and staged ones, and so he suggested the engagement shoot.

    We met just a few weeks before the wedding, at the estate where we would be holding our reception. We walked around a field, stood too far apart from each other, and I was either looking at the floor or donning a fantastic double chin.


    Needless to say, the photos weren’t the best. No matter how hard we tried, we just felt so awkward. However, we did spend an hour getting to know James a little more, and seeing the photos we knew exactly what we needed to do next time we were in front of the camera. Being stalked around a field by a man whose laughing with you one minute and hiding behind some leaves the next will do wonders for you.

    It was a great practice run, and although some could see it as a waste (by the time I’d edited out my extra chins I actually had some good shots anyway), but when you’re spending just over 1k on a wedding photographer surely you don’t want that ‘practice run’ to be during the real thing?

    I mean…. the difference is phenomenal!


    Not forgetting, this person will be quietly stood in the corner of your hotel room while you and a bunch of your favourite females get ready together…. it might be worth breaking the ice before that. Just saying.

    If you haven’t found a photographer yet, or you fancy having a candid family shoot with someone amazing, you can check James out on the link below.

    www.jameslmorgan.co.uk

    This article was originally published here.

    You can follow Aimee on Instagram @themarvellousmrst

  • Weddings at The Old Rectory Handsworth :: What To Expect

    Weddings at The Old Rectory Handsworth :: What To Expect

    An Idyllic Wedding Venue in Handsworth?

    Having photographed quite a few weddings at The Old Rectory in Handsworth, Sheffield, I reckon I’m pretty well placed to give you a unique perspective on what it’s like to have your wedding there.

    First of all, if you are undecided about whether the Old Rectory is the wedding venue for you, get down there and have a look around. Don’t let the fact that it is in the middle of Handsworth put you off.

    For being in the middle of a busy spot it really does feel like such a peaceful place. Even when you’re outside there is such a tranquillity to the grounds.

    Wedding Ceremony Room Layout Options at The Old Rectory

    Inside it has a cosy feeling. The rooms are well spread out with plenty of milling about space if your guests don’t want to go outside.

    There are two rooms you could get married in, depending on the size of your party.  Ballifield is the smaller option and accommodates up to 50 wedding guests. It is a beautifully cosy room with a fireplace and plenty of natural light.

    If you have a larger wedding party then you can also opt to have your ceremony in the main hall.

    Then you can really max out your guest list.

    Whichever room you go for you can be sure that you will be well looked after before, during and after the ceremony. The team looking after proceedings are always very friendly yet professional, taking care of the tiniest of details whilst making sure you get exactly what you want when you want it.

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    Get a quote from a local photographer who knows The Old Rectory well. 

    Wedding Breakfast at The Old Rectory

    After the ceremony you and your guests will have the opportunity to retire either outside or into the many other rooms for a drinks reception.  Meanwhile the Old Rectory team will be busy getting the main hall ready for your wedding breakfast.

    Being such a huge hall there is plenty of room for a well attended wedding breakfast, so there should be no problem fitting everyone in.

    Evening Wedding Reception

    So you’ve had your dinner, done your speeches and drank plenty of wine.  Now all there is left to do is cut your cake, dance your first dance and then boogie the night away.

    After dinner you and your guests will once again be entertained away from the mail hall as the team create space for the dance floor.  Before you know it, you’ll be invited to take centre stage.

    Oh and you see that big balloon that has been hanging from the ceiling of the main hall all day?  You might want to make sure you are dancing underneath it during your first dance.


    Evening Portraits in the Gardens of The Old Rectory

    There is one last photo-opp to be had once the sun has set at The Old Rectory.  If the weather is favourable, take a little stroll into the gardens with your photographer and make the most of the beautiful fairy lights.

    Conclusion

    The Old Rectory in Handsworth definitely gets my seal of approval,

    As a wedding venue you have everything you could need.  It’s a cosy venue, beautiful gardens, friendly and helpful staff, good food and enough space to bring along whatever entertainment you fancy.

    Plus, it’s only about 10 minutes away from JLM HQ so very handy indeed for me 🙂

    Wedding Photography For Your Old Rectory Wedding

    Request a quote from a local Wedding Photographer who knows The Old Rectory well.

    All the photos you see in this article were taken by JLM Wedding Photography.  To request a quote for your wedding pop your details into the form below.  You can expect a response within a few hours, if not check your spam folder.

    Some of my Old Rectory weddings from the blog archives

  • Weddings at Wortley Hall :: What to Expect

    Weddings at Wortley Hall :: What to Expect

    Thinking About Getting Married At Wortley Hall?

    As a wedding photographer based in the Sheffield area I naturally find myself photographing weddings at Wortley Hall quite often.

    If you’re thinking about getting married at Wortley Hall then you are probably excited about the grounds, or the prestige of the Foundry Dining Room.

    All the websites, brochures, photos and visits can only tell you so much.  I figured I have a pretty unique perspective on how wedding days go at Wortley Hall, so I thought I would share it to give you a little extra insight.

    The Bridal Suites

    There are a few bridal suites at Wortley Hall.  Those I have seen have been spacious and very nice to be in.

    If you are getting ready here before your wedding then you will find yourself well looked after.  One of the rooms is particularly large, as I discovered when Lisa brought along her 9 bridesmaids and 9 flower girls.

    Your Wedding Ceremony in the Library

    Ok, I’ll be honest, I made that name up.  I call this room the library because there is a wall of books at the back.

    Basically this is the ceremony room, so if you are having your wedding service at Wortley Hall then this is the room where all the serious things will happen.

    After the ceremony you and your guests will be invited to go out into the grounds via the patio doors, unless the weather isn’t ideal, in which case you’ll be heading into the main hallway.

    Once all your guests are clear the staff will quickly whip away all the chairs and this room becomes an open reception area, complete with a table of drinks towards the back, plus a piano if any of your guests fancy tinkling the ivories.

    Heading into the Grounds of Wortley Hall

    I don’t think I need to say much about the grounds because I have no doubt that they are amongst the main reasons you are looking at Wortley Hall as a wedding venue.

    So instead of talking about them, I’ll show you some photos instead.

    What If It Rains?

    I have already written about what to do on a wedding day.  Check that out in my recent post What If It Rains On Your Wedding Day?.

    I know at Wortley Hall you’ll likely have your heart set on some epic outdoor photos, and time outside in general.  I’m here to tell you that it isn’t the end of the world if you can’t go outside.  There are plenty of nice spots to get indoor photos.

    The Other Hall

    Look it’s not my job to learn the names of every room in every venue.  Basically Wortley Hall has another hall and that is most likely where your evening reception will take place.

    Be warned it is a bit of a trek to get to, and I guarantee your guests will need to be escorted the first time they try to find it.  I often spend a good few minutes helping people find their way.

    The Other Hall is a grand yet somehow cosy room with a stage and a nice spot at the back for a buffet, gift table etc.  There is also a smaller room off to the side which should be available to you for a photo booth or kids room perhaps.

    Would I Recommend Wortley Hall as a Wedding Venue?

    Absolutely, yes I would.

    This is a beautiful venue, steeped in history yet run like a modern wedding venue.  The staff are extremely friendly and very accommodating and I always leave Wortley Hall weddings feeling like my couples had a great day.

    Oh and I happen to know a wedding photographer too, if you’re looking :-).

    See more weddings at Wortley Hall

  • 4 Reasons Why I Might Not Be The Right Wedding Photographer For You

    4 Reasons Why I Might Not Be The Right Wedding Photographer For You

    The last time I checked there were over 17,237 wedding photographers living on my street.  

    You have a heck of a lot of choice when it comes to finding a wedding photographer.

    Does that make it a buyer’s market?  Maybe.  You can easily find someone willing to photograph your wedding whatever your budget.

    I can tell you that I wouldn’t want to be looking for a photographer right now though, because literally anyone can pick up a camera and call themselves a wedding photographer.  How are you possibly going to narrow down your options and rule out all the cowboys?

    Well, I’m here to help you cross one off your list.  Me.

    Here are 4 reasons why I’m probably not the right wedding photographer for you.

    I have my own style and it isn’t trendy!

    Like any other art form, wedding photography follows trends.

    A few years ago all the trendy photographers were emulating the popular Instagram style filters of the time by giving their photos a sort of washed out look. 

    Before that the trend was heavy white vignetting and the dreaded black and white with a pop of colour.

    Nowadays many popular photographers are following the trend of muting the colours, leaving images looking rather brown. 

    I’ll be honest, I think it looks good if done well, but it just isn’t me.

    I always favour emphasising natural colours, so things look like they really did at the time.

    Don’t get me wrong.  I’m not ripping on those who follow trends.  I do like the look, it’s just not me.

    So, if you’re after instant Instagram-able wedding photos, maybe I’m not for you.

    I don’t coach, guide or pose people

    Professional models know how to strike a pose and look amazing every time the camera takes a shot.  Good for them.

    If you’re not a professional model then you’ll probably be expecting a photographer to put you into special poses, arrange your limbs in such a way as to make you look like you really know what you are doing.

    Well, not if I’m your photographer.

    I don’t tell people what to do or how to stand. 

    I work with real people who are happy, in love, and really just want a break from the chaos that is their wedding day. 

    I just leave couples to enjoy each others company and quietly watch for the right moments to capture.

    If you like to be contorted and manipulated into magazine style poses then I am definitely not the right photographer for you.

    Speaking of magazine style poses…

    My photos don’t look like glossy Vogue cover images

    You know those hyper-stylised, ultra glamorous celebrity wedding photos?

    They probably took hours of planning, an entire team to pull together and a tonne of time that the couple didn’t get to spend with their friends and families at their wedding.

    Sorry, you ain’t getting photos like that at your wedding if you choose me.

    If you end up stuck with me all you’ll get are hundreds of photos of you, your family and friends enjoying themselves.

    For portraits, you’re just going to have to make do with a good old fashioned sunset.

    I’m too expensive

    Like I said at the start, there are thousands of wedding photographers around.  Enough that you can easily find someone to fit your budget. 

    Even though my prices are actually pretty closely aligned to industry average in the UK, I’m definitely not the cheapest.  I don’t compete on price.  In fact I don’t think of myself as a competitor at all.  If you love my photos and my approach to taking photos then you will find my prices perfectly reasonable. 

    If you don’t think I’m worth it then I’m probably not the right photographer for you.

    Conclusion

    I have just given you four really good reasons to not choose me as your wedding photographer.  In reality there are probably loads more factors that should effect your decision..  

    There only needs to be one thing that makes someone the right photographer for you, and that is something you can’t put in a list. 

    You are looking for someone with the right attitude, the right personality and who gives you the right feeling when you talk to them and look at their past work.

    This article is all about making you think about what is important when choosing your photographer. 

    If you came up with other reasons why I’m no good for you I would love to hear them, genuinely.